You find yourself in that moment. There they are, your brother/sister in Christ walking in sin. You can’t “un-see” what you saw or “un-hear” what you heard.
Then the alarm sounds inside your heart. You know that as a brother/sister in Christ you have an obligation to go and confront them. But you don’t want to hurt their feelings. You don’t want them to blast you on social media as a spiritual bible-thumping bigot.
You simply see where they are choosing the pain of sin instead of the joy of walking in holiness with Christ.
But, you still inwardly struggle with yourself: Should I confront them?